I had been meaning to welcome them here for a year-and-a-half, but hadn't got around to it. With B away for three weeks in Houston, I have embarked on several projects, one of which is to give life to all our dearest ghosts. Out they all came:
- my Dad's chemical engineering degree from McGill, 1923, signed by Sir Authur Currie, WWI General of disputed repute;
- my late brother's degree from Carleton, a brother who commited suicide at 32 because he was homosexual and his lover had decided to marry;
- a $5 passport photo of my mother, taken by Yousef Karsh in the '30s, magnificent (even way back then, in the '30s, Karsh made everyone sign a waiver stipulating that if he didn't like the photo, you didn't get it);
- my 1968 Carleton English degree;
- B's father's Master Mariner's accreditation;
- my grandmother Lillian Stapledon's 1975 congratulatory certificate from The Queen and Bill Davis on her 95th birthday;
- 1966 pictures of B as captain of the London House tennis and squash teams;
- B's degrees from Sir George, Carleton and Concordia;
- tributes to me from my time at 'Expo '86';
- tributes to B from his time in Correctional Services;
- tributes to my mother from The Salvation Army;
- certificates from three Holy Fathers;
- my "Free Trade" certificate from my years on that task force;
- my "Certificate of Appreciation" from my time at Fisheries and Oceans;
- tributes from my time with "PS 2000"; and
We don't know what we have accomplished until we look at the framed evidence. It is very comforting to have my predecesors and a few accolades now joining us in our office.
I still remember you telling me the tragic story of your brother, God rest his soul.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it amazing we can revisit the milestones in our life packed away in a carton, the memories rising up to meet us with such vividness like it was only last year.
*Sigh* I'm getting sentimental in my middle age
I think "middle age" may agree with you! Yes, my brother's suicide was hideous. Today he would not have done it. I still miss him terribly.
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